As someone who has played on official PSOBB through Phantasy Star Universe's release and the somber months afterwards, I've seen this happen time and again, (in rapid succession!). That said, a few words:
Mew: It is hard to deal with losing a great player and friend, we are all affected in one way with this decision and I totally understand this. It was hard for me to lose my teammates in official, and no amount of giveaways could help me cope with that. But when one sun sets, another will be around the corner. Take that as you will.
NDW: It was great to talk to you, the very few instances we did. I hope to see you pop in every now and again. Also hit me up on Smash 4. I accepted your NNID yesterday. (I just finally got to hook up my Wii U!)