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I have two (pairs of) friends who've married after meeting on Tinder. One of the marriages looks like it'll last, the other left us all confused. But yeah, most people use it for hookups or just acknowledgement that people are into them.Does anyone actually have success with tinder?
could just ask them whats the time.... or directions to somewhere that you dont really need help with, then break the ice from there lol
I guess approaching ladies on phones is 50/50. They may be bored and using social media/gaming in which case your advances may be welcome, or they may be doing something like checking emails/chilling out/trying to not be approached in which case you are best not to try striking up convo with them. Although this would be hard to tell just by looking at them.
A good place to start is to make more female friends and meet some of their friends through them. By being around girls more you will feel way more comfortable around them and this will make asking girls out way easier. If you meet some mutual friends then you may not have to go to the streets looking to pick up.
The last girl I was with I approached totally randomly in a library. She was studying for exams. I got her to come out for some friendly drinks and it went from there.
I think approaching girls randomly shows a lot courage and as long as you are not being annoying/weird and are able to read her cues you will have some good success.
Tbh I would advise more for you to approach girls that are not on their phone. IMO they know the vast majority of the time you are interested, so their is not too much point in BSing them along, pretending to pull something out of thin air to impress/ get their interest. But you need some confidence for this otherwise you'll be too nervous and likely run out of things to say quick and it'll become awkward. Just introduce yourself, ask them what they do for a career/study, and ask more about their job (so many questions to ask about a career path). Then you could speak about what you do etc. Try to give off happy/relaxed vibes. Thing is even though they may not be interested in you romantically, doesn't mean you couldn't be friends. (This would help calm your nerves when going to approach them). Some rejection is guaranteed because ultimately some girls will not be interested in you, and some girls will not be looking to date at all.
If you can go to parties and meet people similar in age to you with mutual friend groups, this is probably the best way to do it. Unfortunately I live in a relatively small place.
Does anyone actually have success with tinder? I have a good few matches but no dates yet ._. I just use it as a Hot-or-Not and have fun with it.
Just don't be a creep man, respect them and they will respect you.
Edit: Also dis an essay but I wanted to give as much advice as possible rather than saying just git gud